Trying Review – Spoiler Warning
I’ve always been reluctant to watch shows my sister recommends, and then I’ll eventually try them and wish I’d joined the wagon sooner. My sister recommended Trying on AppleTV+ to me a while ago but I was hesitant. It sounded like something I wouldn’t relate to but recently we were trying to spend more time together before she moved, and we binged the first and second seasons.
Well… I really enjoyed it. Its rated 73% on Google, 7.7/10 on IMDB, and 93% on Rotten Tomatoes. Seems like I’m not the only one.
Rafe Spall plays Jason Ross, an English as a foreign language teacher who’s mocked for sticking with a job most 20-somethings only have for their gap year into his mid-30s. Esther Smith plays Nicki Newman, a happy-go-lucky car rental salesperson. Their relationship’s origin story is a little messy on Jason’s end, but they remain extremely strong together throughout both seasons.
The title, Trying, stems (mostly) from the protagonists’ journey into parenthood. After a failed IVF trial, their determination to start a family leads them to adopt. Through the first season, we follow the process of them being approved for adoption. Through the second season, we follow the process of them getting a child.
The show primarily focuses on Jason and Nicki, but they are surrounded by an entertaining, quirky support system. Their best friends, Freddy (played by Oliver Chris) and Erica (played by Ophelia Lovibond), have two children and run into marriage problems following the birth of their second. Nicki’s sister, Karen (played by Sian Brooke), has a boyfriend, Scott (played by Darren Boyd), whose flat-out unlikeable but eventually grows on you.
There are standout performances from Jason’s parents: Victor Ross (played by Phil Davis) and Sandra Ross (played by Paula Willcox). The first season presents them as very upper class and distant. The second season reveals a deeper story. Victor’s love language is acts of service; he may not be the deepest conversationalist, but he will fix everything and anything in Jason’s flat. Sandra clearly has childhood trauma from her mother who dies in the second season; her anger and grief connect her and Nicki. They bond while tearing apart an old shed and screaming. It sounds ridiculous but is very touching.
The most heartwarming character out of the bunch is Jason and Nicki’s social worker, Penny Wootton (played by Imelda Staunton). Staunton’s portrayal of this hardworking, hard-loving woman is a far cry from her notorious portrayal of Professor Umbrage in the Harry Potter franchise. She is chaotic, poised, charming, and motivating. She takes our protagonists under her wing and fights for them. It makes me well up just thinking about it.
Trying is a touching half-hour dramedy that makes you go from laughing to crying in seconds. It seems AppleTV+ knows what they are doing when funding projects like this, Ted Lasso, Dickinson and the new Schmigadoon! Apple is creating a name for itself in the realm of comedy half-hour. Surely they will be considered a must subscribe soon, if not already.
I know I talk a lot about performances, but a good tv show is more than that. The creator, Andy Wolton, impressively has a shortlist of credits for having such a successful series with a major company like Apple. The third season of Trying was greenlit two months before the second season hit the streaming platform. I think if he has anything else on the backburner that breaths like Trying, he’s headed towards a very blissful, rewarding career in half-hour.
Trying‘s colourful palette complements the warmth the characters bring to their stories that feature such deep sadness. The opening credits remind me of the early 2010s when Indie music and ukuleles were all the rage. It has an aged hipster vibe that is comforting instead of mocking. Even the rows of townhouses the protagonists live in are coloured in bright pastels and the markets they shop at feel stylized but real. The show is aesthetically pleasing as much as well written and performed. Something, I feel, is often overlooked in broadcast television.
Overall, I say go watch Trying. It is absolutely incredible.